Everything is going smoothly, and it has been for some time. You’re in love, and you’re pretty sure they are too. But is it time to tie the knot?
Knowing when to propose isn’t always easy to figure out, especially if you’re already blissful and don’t want to rock the boat! But deciding to declare your love with the perfect engagement ring is a beautiful way of celebrating and solidifying your relationship.
Discover the five signs that suggest you’re ready to head down the aisle.
- You’ve reached a milestone
Whether it’s moving into a shared home, getting a pet together or achieving an anniversary, reaching a milestone might be a sign that you’re ready for marriage. Major milestones indicate a serious commitment, and for those who are marriage-minded a wedding is a natural next step.
- You talk about the future
Believe it or not, some couples can go years without talking about the future with one or both halves shying away from anything that suggests a permanent union.
If plans for the months and years ahead are a natural thread in your conversation, this is a clear sign that you’re both thinking seriously about building a life together in the long term. Indicators might include talking about the best places in the UK to settle down, envisioning your dream house and discussing the option of children.
- You’ve met the family
As much as it doesn’t matter what they think, the approval of your partner’s parents is a sign that you’d be a good fit in the family and welcomed with open arms. This is especially reassuring if you’re going down the traditional path of asking the dad for their daughter’s hand in marriage!
- The friends approve
Often, your friends know you as well as your family. How they feel about your significant other is often a suggestion of whether the relationship is set to go the distance or not.
Watch your friends when they’re around your partner. Do they engage in conversation and talk openly? Is there a comfortable feeling in the air? Are they making an effort to include your partner in other activities and events? These are all signs that they’ve been given the seal of approval.
- It doesn’t feel scary
Lastly – and most importantly – you’ll know you’re ready to pop the question when it doesn’t feel scary. You’ve spent time building good channels of communication in your relationship and you trust them completely, and the idea of a future together excites you.
Sometimes you’ve just got to trust your gut and take the plunge. No one has ever been offended by a heartfelt gesture of everlasting love!
